Showing posts with label Larry Kreider. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Larry Kreider. Show all posts
  1. I Don't (Just) Believe In Jesus

    Friday, January 28, 2011
    By johnny
    I trust in Him.

    You believe that there is one God. Good!
    Even the demons believe that--and shudder.
    -James 2:19-

    My life is completely changed because I don't know where I would be without God here in my life. Now I have unending peace, joy, hope, and love that are more than enough! Every time I think about what God has done in my life, tears run down my face. I pray that everyone would come to know this love that truly satisfies, even though it might sound silly, but this love is much more real than reality shows, romantic movies, or online dating.

    All He requires of us is a leap of faith.





    I trust in my family members because I know that they love me with all their heart and the things they promised is for my good. Same goes for Jesus!

    johnny
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  2. Chapter 4 - The Release Test

    Wednesday, May 19, 2010
    By johnny
    An effective leader knows how to empower others.

    This test is very essential because it tests the heart of a leader toward those he mentors and trains. This chapter examines whether his heart is selfish (cares more about himself) or selfless (cares about developing and empowering others).

    1. Are you a leader who can spot potential in others? How?
    Okay. This question got me. Larry writes, "Attentive leaders are those who can spot potential in others. They can look at someone and see the dreams inside of them regarding what they can become for Jesus Christ... People need others who will help them unlock their dreams and then release them to use their gifts." So here I am reading this chapter, and all that's going through my mind is "how I can be an attentive leader who can spot potentials in others".I am definitely still in the process of learning to see into others the dreams that God has put within their hearts and draw those dreams out and help them to partner up with the Holy Spirit and make those dreams realities! How? I would do whatever I can to have them take classes and go to seminars to learn about their "callings" and "talents" God has predestined! Jack, my spiritual dad & my brother-in-law (some people call it the in-love instead of in-law), he really has an gift of seeing the potential within others and put them in the right places so that their talents can grow and multiply! I want to have that kind of gift, too, Jesus.


    2. How are you making room for new leaders in your organization?
    Well, I don't have an organization per se, but right now I have someone who I co-lead the home group with, and so far we have not had any "new leaders" yet, but I believe in the future I will come back to this question!




    3. Are you secure enough in your leadership to trust others to carry on with the work that you've started?
    What a question. I admit that sometimes I would have this insecurity attack, and I can still remember there were many occasions when I gave away the work I've started to someone else but I would not be able to let go of it (hence the release test)! So now I really need God to take away any insecurity within me and give me grace to trust Him and trust those whom I empower! Larry writes, "Only a dysfunctional parent would try to keep his son or daughter at home to help him fulfill his own vision."



    4. How have you personally helped a young leader break through to new levels of ministry potential?
    I do not think I can answer this question just yet.... so.... SKIP! Maybe there are small breakthroughs but I just can't seem to remember at this moment.




    5. How many potential leaders are you currently mentoring, and who are they mentoring?
    As of now, I am mentoring a brother, but he's mentoring someone just yet. I know he will! I really want to pour out my life upon someone else so that he will pour our his life for someone else! More, Lord!


    6. How is releasing young leaders directly correlated to spiritual mothering and fathering?
    Mentoring is basically the same thing as spiritual parenting. Like leaders releasing those they trained, Larry writes, "A secure parent releases his children, encouraging his son or daughters to excel to greater heights than he ever did. Parents get under their children and find out what is in their hearts and help them fulfill their own vision... [Parents] do not necessarily do everything for their children, but they help find those who can serve as resources to them." That pretty much sums all six questions up!





    "Genie, you are free!"

    stay tuned for Chapter 5 - The Priorities Test
    johnny
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  3. Chapter 3 - The Teamwork Test

    Tuesday, May 11, 2010
    By johnny
    Chapter 3 - The Teamwork Test


    This chapter talks about the leader's job within a team. I remember when I was young I would be chosen as team leader during class activities when we were separated into small groups. And I would do my best to make sure our team wins. And this is what the leader of a team should ask himself: How can I make sure our team wins? or How can we accomplish this task in the shortest time with the greatest profit while every member's skills are being utilized to the max?

    1. What can we learn from Jesus' example of how teams work together through His relationship with the 12 disciples?
    As Larry puts it: "Jesus could have accomplished His work on earth on His own, but He chose to work with a team to fulfill the task. He developed His disciples by giving them intense on-the-job training. He talked with them, prayed with them, affirmed them, warned them, challenged them as a team, and even told them they would do even greater things than He did." So, we should do the same when it comes to working with a team and developing disciples!


    2. Describe the commonalities all teams must have. Do you have these functioning on your team? If not, how can they begin to be built?
    The four commonalities for a team to function well together are VISION, VALUES, PROCEDURE, and HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS. I'll use my church Impact as an example: The core team members have common visions (encounter, disciple, send) - we know where we're going. We also have these values that we are willing to die for (the six qualities: influence, maturity, passion, anointing, covenant, truth). We also have some kind of procedure as in who is in charge of what (cell leaders, prophetic ministry, media, administration, worship...etc). Last but not least, we all have healthy, loving relationships like family members would.
    These four qualities are meant to be built and grown, they do not appear over night. Thus, I am aiming to start building these commonalities in my cell group with Alice, whom I partnered with as co-leaders of this group. We only have 2 people in this team, but that's okay, because our job is to dig out the hidden treasures of each cell members and develop them and empower them (we'll touch on that in the next chapter), thus invite them into our team. We both have good relationships, and we hold the same vision and values as the church, but what we need to work on is the procedure - how to first build up people then train up leaders.


    3. As a leader, how do you find ways for your team to win?
    Well, the team that I lead has no goal of "winning" but rather "having breakthroughs". I do not think I can answer this question well because I do not have much experience of leading a team into breakthrough. But I believe that I need to acknowledge my teammates and value them and make them feel secured in the team environment; moreover, "they must all realize they have a job to do, and no one can do their job other than they." As a person who leads worship with a team, I have faced "The Calling Test" and "The Humility Test", and of course the Teamwork Test. And all I have to say is that I have learned how to follow the Spirit while I lead, and I have learned to appreciate every single musician on the team because each one of them has something unique to offer to the team. Cooperate breakthrough definitely requires unity and teamwork.


    4. How does interdependence work on your team?
    Larry writes, "The key is interdependence. We need each other... Organizational researchers reserved the term team for groups that have high interdependence--each task that you do is dependent on what the other team members are doing at that same time... When we understand others' strengths and weaknesses, we can build as a team, capitalizing on strengths and providing support where others are weak."
    I have been learning how to be interdependence instead being independence for the past six months or so partnering up with Alice. I think we are compatible when we work together because in the areas where I'm weak, Alice is stronger than I, and definitely there are some areas to which we both are not very competent (thus we need to train up or partner up with people who can fill in that gap!).


    5. How do you communicate and problem solve on your team? Do you give respect to others? Do you demand it for yourself?
    Unfortunately, I'm a person who can be arrogant sometimes. And throughout the past five or six years of coming to know Christ, I see how God has dealt with my problem through communicating and solving problems with a team. I used to think that I'm always right and everything had to go "my way", but in fact many things really did not turn out the way I wanted it to turn out. No one likes that feeling of "unmet expectation", but thank God that I can always lean on Him and still praise Him! Now I probably would have a higher score when it comes to this Teamwork Respect issue after all these testing from the Lord. I thank Him that now I would listen more and talk less, and I would give respect to others when they talk and really listen to what they have to say. O I'm still learning... =)


    6. What happens within you when a team member gives direct criticism or seems to resist the direction of the team?
    Like I said, I probably would have some disappointment and/or anger within when a member criticizes me or my action or even resists the direction of the team, but I know that I should receive advice with humility, and not quick to judge (grr...it is a test indeed!). I'll most likely to sit down with that member and fight... i mean talk it through! "Good communication and respect for each other through committed relationships will result in successful teamwork."

    stay tuned for Chapter 4 - The Release Test!

    johnny
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  4. Chapter 2 - The Humility Test

    Saturday, May 1, 2010
    By johnny
    I've been reading Larry Kreider's 21 Tests of Effective Leadership and answering questions at the end of each chapter.
     
    Chapter 2 - The Humility Test
     
    Before I plunge myself into answering these humbling questions, almost EVERY word from this chapter spoke to my heart with conviction. The test of humility is so real, and it's always waiting to bust in and make a mess of me when it see a door ajar. Very well then, let me start digging out those junk and leave them to the Lord! Oh isn't He great?
     
    1. How do you sometimes try to make yourself look good as a leader?
    Oh no… no… of course I NEVER, EVER try to make myself look good. I'm born good-looking!… haha. *Sigh…* Many times I would be the "holy holy" leader who says, "Mayeth the-eth Lordeth Godeth Almightieth blesseth thee!" and acts all righteous in order to make myself look very polished and blameless. After all, aren't we all called to be blameless and holy? But as a matter of fact, I acted that way was to have people "adore" me and "compliment" me; I was falling for the humility test. I can probably recall times when I would unintentionally/intentionally cast stone upon others to cover this ugly monster and make him look so beautiful, holy, and righteous…
     
    2. Do you understand your deficiencies as well as your capabilities? How is this humbling?
    Deficiencies first: I'm not so great at thoroughly putting my thoughts into words and communicate with others with it (the words). I'm not so great at finishing doing what I've started.
    Capabilities: I'm capable of facing changes and adopting cultures and environments. I'm also capable of starting new projects (though not that capable of sustaining it).
    It is very humbling to know that I AM, in fact, NOT GOD. =) and I'm for real. When pride is built, our spiritual eyes start to fail.
    Larry writes, "Pride gives a leader an exaggerated sense of his own importance." Knowing my deficiencies and capabilities humbles me and makes me appreciate those who have what I seem to lack, and thus build a team with them (that would be the next chapter).
     
    3. In a society that encourages competition and individuality, how can you be humble?
    I'm actually not a competitive person, and that often leads to losing. Hence the perfect opportunity to be humble: to lose after a long winning streak in Call of Duty, to crack my voice/play something completely off-key on the keyboard while leading worship. There are certainly many many more incidents in my life that have humbled me, especially regarding to worship leading. It has been a humbling experience definitely!
     
    4. How can false pride resemble humility?
    False pride is to act humbly with a selfish heart.
    Humility is to act humbly with a selfless heart.
     
    5. How can the accountability of friends and relationships around you help with the test of humility?
    Those who are the closest to me can really help me out when the test of humility is pounding on my door. They can guide me and point me in the right direction; sometimes their words can hurt, but that's all the selfish prideful mind's fault! If I know that they love me and want the best for me, then I should humbly accept their advice!
     
    6. Describe ways to keep your perspective and maintain humility when you experience success as a leader.
    The more successful we get, the lower we should go. Because when we humble ourselves, God exalts us; and when we exalt ourselves, God would humble us. After all, it's God who puts us in the leadership positions, he can bring us down anytime - thus our success lies in our faithfulness toward God and our meekness before God. As Laura Hackett, a worship leader from IHOP-KC, sings, "I bow down, I get low, I open up my heart to receive Your love… Your river it rushes to the lowest place…"
     
    I probably surprised myself several times with my answer while responding to these convicting questions that requires me to break myself open and be true to myself. The responding of these questions has been one humbling experience!
     
    stay tuned for Chapter 3 - The Teamwork Test!
     
    johnny
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  5. Chapter 1 - The Calling Test

    Tuesday, April 27, 2010
    By johnny
    by Larry Kreider
    Larry came and spoke on spiritual parenting on April 17 and I got a couple of his books to read! I started reading his latest work, and I will use this blog as a note pad to answer some questions at the end of each chapter! (www.21testsofleadership.com)
     
    Chapter 1 - The Calling Test
     
    1. Describe your personal God-given calling.
    hmm. this is something EVERYONE's wondering and thinking and praying and searching and pulling their hair and banging on their Bibles for! under the great commandment and the great commission lies your calling! i suppose my calling is to... uh...... uuuuuuuh...... worship God in musical settings? heal the sick, raise the dead, and the whole nine yards? i really want to create music that makes a difference. not just some cheesy pop songs about breaking up and making up but songs about the suffering and the hope, the beat down and the rescue, the abused and the love. i don't know whether i'll profit from it, but hey if this is what God's calling me to do, I will go after it and I shall leave the rest to Him. He will provide me!
    Larry mentioned that people might receive different callings in different seasons of their lives. maybe this calling is not for the current season. i definitely need to seek Him so i know what season i am in and what i should do in this specific season of my life!
     
    2. Define the difference between talents and gifts.
    If you are unsure what your call is right now, know that God has given you talents and gifts to help you figure out your calling.
    Talents are those things God has deposited within you to excel, such as... public speaking, teaching, singing, mathematics, writing, drawing, cooking, designing, sales...etc. Your talents make certain types of work attractive to you. And because they represent natural skills you already have or can easily develop, you excel when you use them.
    Gifts are spiritual areas of life that God has blessed you with. Your gifts may include teaching, service, preaching, encouragement, generosity, music, hospitality, and soon. God is the source of the gift that equips you to fulfill His call. Since He is the Giver of all gifts, your success completely depends on His activity through you and your dependence upon Him. (page 19-20)
     
    3. Take the time to create a list of your natural and physical talents.
    - Music making
    - Singing
    - Piano playing
    - Networking
    - Outgoing-ness
    - Organize events/things
    - Sales
     
    4. Now take the time to list your God-given gifts.
    Operating Gifts (Rom 12:6-8)
    - Exhortation/Encouragement
    - Leading
    - Service
    - Compassion
     
    Administrative Gifts (Ephesians 4:11)
    - Prophetic (worship)
    - Evangelical
     
    Charismatic/Spirit Gifts (1 Cor 12:1-14)
    - Words of Knowledge
    - Working of Miracles
    - Healing
    - Tongues
     
    Other Gifts
    - Worship
    - Giving
     
    Wikipedia has, to my surprise, a list of spiritual gifts if anyone is interested. The book doesn't point out all kinds of gifts, so I thought I'd search online for all kinds of "gifts" given from the Lord. It is very well broken down! Yes, I like wiki.
     
    5. How do the two intersect in such a way that they fulfill or could fulfill a life call? Who will you serve with these gifts?
    This is the million-buck question. I would say serving the needy and the hungry and the poor through prophetic worship, music making, some healing and miracles would be a great mix, bottom line: bringing glory to the Father.
    I believe maybe in a month, definitely a year, or five years, my lists would be a bit different! While I was typing up this post, I saw a friend's facebook picture and thought it fits right in the middle of this topic of CALLING. Love the doodling by the way.

     
    I want to see patterns in my life which relate to the people I enjoy touching and doing tasks that build convergence! I want to be "in the zone of my call" in my life!
    So, here it is, the end of chapter uno. My brain is fried from digging out the list of talents and gifts and thinking about my "calling". I believe "skill", which is the ability to do something well through learning and practicing, can also play a part of my calling, however, God-given talents and gifts definitely come first (in my opinion) because God has put the talents and given the gifts for my specific calling, skills are what I would have to learn in the process of fulfilling that calling.
     
    What is your calling? Try answering these five essential and extremely helpful questions that make you think and examine yourself... you might even be surprised!


    johnny
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open your eyes.
His love never fails. For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works,
which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them.
~Ephesians 2:10~

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